Showing posts with label Christmas gift for him. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas gift for him. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Make Love Work



Years back I was very active in my spiritual group. By the way I found a nice definition of religious
Make Love Work - Get first hand experiences
and spiritual:
In the group there was a man who had not been very active for some years but was now. In one discussion, I am not sue maybe he felt accused, he something like "Building a house and paying the mortgage is as spiritual as sitting around in an Ashram". I am not very sure why it stuck. Since then every now and then it pops up in my head and I am asking myself if I am hiding or of I live a spiritual life.
Christmas is near and with it the need for Christmas gifts for him and Christmas gifts for her. I am not sure if this enforced giving and commanded loving is necessary.
I like to think all that is is necessary one way or the other. Christmas gifts for him and Christmas gifts for her for sure are a way to spend money needed in more and better spend in other places. I read that the average spending on America for Christmas gift for him and Christmas gifts for her amounted to almost 900$ per family in 2012. And the self gifting was 59% Well this I am sure was one of the reason Amazon was happy. I published my first book in Amazon in the first week of December. (Make Love Work) You should consider it as a self gifting target, but it is a nice gift for all the couples you know (except the newly wed). It is almost 200 pages and will not dig a big hole into your budget,
Now I am fascinated by the word self.gifting. But I wanted to write about the spiritual adventure of paying the mortgage over some time or like I did writing a big or a blog. Wise people say, I say it too but I am not sure if I am already wise, that it is good to keep a dairy. When I wrote Make Love Work I did not because I was using up my energy to write and did into the other worlds to find gems I can write about.  But for sure I agree that it is a spiritual adventure.
I appreciate and salute all those people here in the Philippines who are brave enough and probably determined enough to buy a house, a condo or even only a car.